<UserControl x:Class="CollectioViewSourceWithOutRefresh.TextBlockEx"
             xmlns="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml/presentation"
             xmlns:x="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml"
             xmlns:mc="http://schemas.openxmlformats.org/markup-compatibility/2006" 
             xmlns:d="http://schemas.microsoft.com/expression/blend/2008"
             xmlns:my="clr-namespace:CollectioViewSourceWithOutRefresh"
             mc:Ignorable="d" 
             d:DesignHeight="300" d:DesignWidth="300"
             x:Name="Control">
    <UserControl.Template>
        <ControlTemplate>
            <TextBlock Text="{Binding Text, ElementName=Control}">
                <TextBlock.Background>
                    <SolidColorBrush x:Name="BackgroundBrush" Color="LightCoral"/>
                </TextBlock.Background>
            </TextBlock>
            <ControlTemplate.Triggers>
                <Trigger Property="my:TextBlockEx.Blue" Value="True">
                    <Trigger.EnterActions>
                        <BeginStoryboard>
                            <Storyboard>
                                <ColorAnimation Storyboard.TargetName="BackgroundBrush" 
                                                Storyboard.TargetProperty="Color"
                                                To="LightBlue" Duration="0:0:2"/>
                            </Storyboard>
                        </BeginStoryboard>
                    </Trigger.EnterActions>
                    <Trigger.ExitActions>
                        <BeginStoryboard>
                            <Storyboard>
                                <ColorAnimation Storyboard.TargetName="BackgroundBrush" 
                                                Storyboard.TargetProperty="Color"
                                                To="LightCoral" Duration="0:0:2"/>
                            </Storyboard>
                        </BeginStoryboard>
                    </Trigger.ExitActions>
                </Trigger>
            </ControlTemplate.Triggers>
        </ControlTemplate>
    </UserControl.Template>
</UserControl>

<UserControl x:Class="CollectioViewSourceWithOutRefresh.TextBlockEx"
             xmlns="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml/presentation"
             xmlns:x="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml"
             xmlns:mc="http://schemas.openxmlformats.org/markup-compatibility/2006" 
             xmlns:d="http://schemas.microsoft.com/expression/blend/2008"
             mc:Ignorable="d" 
             d:DesignHeight="300" d:DesignWidth="300"
             x:Name="Control">
    <UserControl.Resources>
        <Storyboard x:Key="AnimationToBlue">
            <ColorAnimation Storyboard.TargetName="BackgroundBrush" Storyboard.TargetProperty="Color"
                            To="LightBlue" Duration="0:0:2"/>
        </Storyboard>
        <Storyboard x:Key="AnimationToRed">
            <ColorAnimation Storyboard.TargetName="BackgroundBrush" Storyboard.TargetProperty="Color"
                            To="LightCoral" Duration="0:0:2"/>
        </Storyboard>
    </UserControl.Resources>
    
    <TextBlock Text="{Binding Text, ElementName=Control}">
        <TextBlock.Background>
            <SolidColorBrush x:Name="BackgroundBrush" Color="LightCoral"/>
        </TextBlock.Background>
    </TextBlock>
</UserControl>

public partial class TextBlockEx : UserControl
    {
        public static readonly DependencyProperty TextProperty =
            DependencyProperty.Register("Text", typeof(string), typeof(TextBlockEx), new PropertyMetadata(string.Empty));
        public static readonly DependencyProperty BlueProperty =
            DependencyProperty.Register("Blue", typeof(bool), typeof(TextBlockEx), new PropertyMetadata(false, OnBlueChanged));
        
        public TextBlockEx() { InitializeComponent(); }
        
        public string Text { get { return (string)GetValue(TextProperty); } set { SetValue(TextProperty, value); } }
        public bool Blue { get { return (bool)GetValue(BlueProperty); } set { SetValue(BlueProperty, value); } }

        private static void OnBlueChanged(DependencyObject d, DependencyPropertyChangedEventArgs e)
        {
            var obj = (TextBlockEx)d;
            obj.ChangeVisualState("OnBlueChanged");
        }

        public void ChangeVisualState(string method)
        {
            if (IsLoaded)
            {
                var storyboard = (Storyboard)FindResource(Blue ? "AnimationToBlue" : "AnimationToRed");
                storyboard.Begin(this);
            }
            else
            {
                BackgroundBrush.Color = Blue ? Colors.LightBlue : Colors.LightCoral;
            }
        }
    }