public partial class CueControl : UserControl\n    {\n        public static readonly DependencyProperty CurrentCueCountProperty =\n            DependencyProperty.Register("CurrentCueCount", typeof(int), typeof(CueControl), new PropertyMetadata(0, OnMyPropertyChanged));\n\n        public  int CurrentCueCount\n        {\n            get { return (int)GetValue(CurrentCueCountProperty); }\n            set \n            {\n                SetValue(CurrentCueCountProperty, value);\n            }\n        }\n\n        private static void OnMyPropertyChanged(DependencyObject d, DependencyPropertyChangedEventArgs e)\n        {\n            CueControl control = d as CueControl;\n            if (control == null)\n            {\n                return;\n            }\n    \n            control.UpdateLayout();\n\n        }\n...

<cueselector:CueControl x:Name="cuecontrol" CurrentCueCount="{Binding CueCount, Mode=TwoWay}" />

<TextBox x:Name="tb" Text="{Binding CueCount}" />

<UserControl x:Class="CueSelectorControl.CueControl"
             xmlns="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml/presentation"
             xmlns:x="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml"
             xmlns:mc="http://schemas.openxmlformats.org/markup-compatibility/2006" 
             xmlns:d="http://schemas.microsoft.com/expression/blend/2008">
    <UserControl.Resources >

... Ресурсы контрола ...
</UserControl.Resources>
        <Grid x:Name="LayoutRoot">
        ... Тело контрола ...
    </Grid>
    
</UserControl>

        <DataTemplate x:Key="DefaultDataTemplate">
            <Border Width="240" Height="270">
                  <cueselector:CueControl x:Name="cuecontrol" CurrentCueCount="{Binding CueCount, Mode=TwoWay}"/>
            </Border>
        </DataTemplate>

        private int _cueCount;
        public int CueCount
        {
            get { return _cueCount; }
            set 
            {
                _cueCount = value;
                OnPropertyChanged(new PropertyChangedEventArgs("CueCount"));
            }
        }

        private int _cueCount;
        public int CueCount
        {
            get { return _cueCount; }
            set 
            {
                _cueCount = value;
                PropertyChanged(this, new PropertyChangedEventArgs("CueCount"));
            }
        }}

<UserControl x:Class="Billiards.TablesSurface"
             xmlns="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml/presentation"
             xmlns:x="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml"
             xmlns:mc="http://schemas.openxmlformats.org/markup-compatibility/2006" 
             xmlns:d="http://schemas.microsoft.com/expression/blend/2008" 
             xmlns:ei="http://schemas.microsoft.com/expression/2010/interactions"
             xmlns:ee="http://schemas.microsoft.com/expression/2010/effects"
             xmlns:local="clr-namespace:Billiards"
             xmlns:cueselector="clr-namespace:CueSelectorControl;assembly=CueSelectorControl"
             mc:Ignorable="d" 
             d:DesignHeight="600" d:DesignWidth="800" Loaded="UserControl_Loaded" Unloaded="UserControl_Unloaded">

    <UserControl.Resources>


        <DataTemplate x:Key="DefaultDataTemplate">
            <Border Width="240" Height="270" VerticalAlignment="Stretch" HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" Padding="4" Margin="3" Background="#FF293955" CornerRadius="5" BorderBrush="#FF000000" BorderThickness="2">
                <Border VerticalAlignment="Stretch" HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" Padding="4" Background="#FFFFFFFF" CornerRadius="5" BorderBrush="#FF000000" BorderThickness="0">
                    <Border VerticalAlignment="Stretch" HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" Padding="4" Background="#FF293955" CornerRadius="5" BorderBrush="#FF000000" BorderThickness="0">
                        <Grid>
                            <Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
                                <ColumnDefinition Width="*"/>
                                <ColumnDefinition Width="auto"/>
                            </Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
                            <Grid.RowDefinitions>
                                <RowDefinition Height="*" />
                                <RowDefinition Height="auto" />
                            </Grid.RowDefinitions>

                            <StackPanel Orientation="Vertical" Grid.Column="1">
                                <Button x:Name="btnshield" Click="btnshield_Click" ToolTipOpening="tooltshield_ToolTipOpening" Content="" Height="35" Style="{DynamicResource ButtonStyleShield}" Width="28" Margin="20,0,0,0">
                                    <Button.ToolTip>
                                        <TextBlock/>
                                    </Button.ToolTip>
                                </Button>
                                <Button x:Name="btn_note" Click="btn_note_Click" Content="" HorizontalAlignment="Right" Style="{DynamicResource ButtonStyleNote}" Width="28" Margin="0,20,0,0"/>
                                <!--<TextBox x:Name="tb" Width="50" Text="{Binding CueCount}" />-->
                                <cueselector:CueControl x:Name="cuecontrol" CurrentCueCount="{Binding CueCount, Mode=TwoWay}"  HorizontalAlignment="Right" Margin="0,20,0,0" />
                            </StackPanel>
                            
                            <StackPanel Orientation="Vertical" HorizontalAlignment="Stretch">
                                <StackPanel Orientation="Horizontal">
                                    <ToggleButton Content="ToggleButton" IsChecked="{Binding Isstarted}" IsEnabled="False" HorizontalAlignment="Left" Height="30" Style="{DynamicResource ToggleButtonStyleBilliards}" VerticalAlignment="Center" Width="30"/>
                                    <TextBlock Text="{Binding Playtablename}" HorizontalAlignment="Center" VerticalAlignment="Center" Foreground="White" FontSize="27" FontWeight="Bold" FontFamily="Buxton Sketch" />
                                </StackPanel>
                                
                               
                                <TextBlock Text="{Binding Tablegamename}" HorizontalAlignment="Center" VerticalAlignment="Center" Foreground="White" FontSize="15" FontWeight="Medium" FontFamily="Buxton Sketch" />
                                <!--<Image Source="/Billiards;component/Images/bili.jpg" />-->
                                <StackPanel Orientation="Horizontal">
                                    <TextBlock Text="{Binding GameTypeLabel}" Foreground="White" VerticalAlignment="Center"/>
                                    <TextBlock Text="{Binding Timecontent}" Foreground="{Binding Labelbrush}" FontSize="32" FontWeight="Bold" FontFamily="Quartz MS"/>
                                </StackPanel>

                                <StackPanel Orientation="Horizontal">
                                    <TextBlock Text="Начало: " Foreground="White"/>
                                    <TextBlock Text="{Binding StartDateLabel, StringFormat='ddd, HH:mm', ConverterCulture='ru-RU'}" Foreground="White"/>
                                </StackPanel>
                                <StackPanel Orientation="Horizontal">
                                    <TextBlock Text="Конец: " Foreground="White"/>
                                    <TextBlock Text="{Binding StopDate, StringFormat='ddd, HH:mm', ConverterCulture='ru-RU'}" Foreground="White"/>
                                </StackPanel>

                                <StackPanel Orientation="Horizontal">
                                    <TextBlock Text="Затрачено денег: " Foreground="White"/>
                                    <TextBlock Text="{Binding Moneycount, StringFormat='c', ConverterCulture='ru-RU'}" Foreground="White" />
                                </StackPanel>

                                <StackPanel Orientation="Horizontal">
                                    <TextBlock Text="Игра: " Foreground="White"/>
                                    <TextBlock Text="{Binding Gamestatuslabel}" Foreground="White" />
                                </StackPanel>
                            </StackPanel>
                            <Button Grid.Row="1" Grid.Column="0" Grid.ColumnSpan="2" Content="{Binding Btncaption, Mode=TwoWay}" Style="{DynamicResource ButtonStyleBilliards}" Width="180" Height="35" FontSize="20" FontWeight="Bold" Foreground="{Binding Btnbrush}" Tag="{Binding Id}" Click="Button_Click" Margin="0,0,0,5" />
                        </Grid>
                    </Border>
                </Border>
            </Border>
        </DataTemplate>

        <DataTemplate x:Key="OrderDataTemplate">
            <Border Width="240" Height="230" VerticalAlignment="Stretch" HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" Padding="4" Margin="10" Background="#FF293955" CornerRadius="5" BorderBrush="#FF000000" BorderThickness="2">
                <Border VerticalAlignment="Stretch" HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" Padding="4" Background="#FFFFFFFF" CornerRadius="5" BorderBrush="#FF000000" BorderThickness="0">
                    <Border VerticalAlignment="Stretch" HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" Padding="4" Background="#FF293955" CornerRadius="5" BorderBrush="#FF000000" BorderThickness="0">
                        <Grid>
                            <StackPanel Orientation="Vertical">

                                <TextBlock Text="Забронирован" FontSize="24" TextDecorations="Underline" HorizontalAlignment="Center" VerticalAlignment="Center" Margin="0,0,0,10">
									<TextBlock.Foreground>
										<LinearGradientBrush EndPoint="0.5,1" StartPoint="0.5,0">
											<GradientStop Color="White" Offset="0"/>
											<GradientStop Color="White" Offset="1"/>
											<GradientStop Color="#FFD44A4A" Offset="0.482"/>
										</LinearGradientBrush>
									</TextBlock.Foreground>
                                </TextBlock>

                                <Grid>
                                    <Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
                                        <ColumnDefinition Width="*" />
                                        <ColumnDefinition Width="2*" />
                                    </Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
                                    <TextBlock Text="ФИО:" HorizontalAlignment="Right" Foreground="White" VerticalAlignment="Center" />
                                    <TextBlock Text="{Binding OrderUser}" HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" Grid.Column="1" Foreground="White"/>
                                </Grid>
                                <Grid>
                                    <Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
                                        <ColumnDefinition Width="*" />
                                        <ColumnDefinition Width="2*" />
                                    </Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
                                    <TextBlock Text="№ карты:" HorizontalAlignment="Right" Foreground="White" VerticalAlignment="Center" />
                                    <TextBlock Text="{Binding OrderCard}" HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" Grid.Column="1" Foreground="White"/>
                                </Grid>

                                <StackPanel Orientation="Horizontal" HorizontalAlignment="Center" VerticalAlignment="Center" Margin="0,50,0,0">
                                    <Button x:Name="btnorder_start" Content="{Binding Btncaption, Mode=TwoWay}" Style="{DynamicResource ButtonStyleSmallBtn}" FontWeight="Bold" Width="80.021" Foreground="{Binding Btnbrush}" Tag="{Binding Id}" Click="btnorder_start_Click" Margin="0,0,10,0" />
                                    <Button x:Name="btnorder_cancel" Content="Снять" Style="{DynamicResource ButtonStyleSmallBtn}" Width="80.021" FontWeight="Bold" Foreground="White" Click="btnorder_cancel_Click"  Margin="10,0,0,0" />
                                </StackPanel>
                            </StackPanel>
                        </Grid>
                    </Border>
                </Border>
            </Border>
        </DataTemplate>

        <local:TableTemplateSelector x:Key="myselector"
            DefaultTemplate="{StaticResource DefaultDataTemplate}"
            OrderTemplate="{StaticResource OrderDataTemplate}" />

        <Style x:Key="SimpleListBoxItem" TargetType="ListBoxItem">
            <Setter Property="FocusVisualStyle" Value="{x:Null}" />
            <Setter Property="Template">
                <Setter.Value>
                    <ControlTemplate TargetType="ListBoxItem">
                        <Border 
                           Name="Border"
                           Padding="2"
                           SnapsToDevicePixels="true">
                            <ContentPresenter />
                        </Border>
                    </ControlTemplate>
                </Setter.Value>
            </Setter>
        </Style>

    </UserControl.Resources>

    <Grid HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" VerticalAlignment="Stretch">
        <ScrollViewer VerticalScrollBarVisibility="Auto" HorizontalScrollBarVisibility="Disabled">
                <ListBox Name="Tablelist"
	                    IsSynchronizedWithCurrentItem="True" 
	                    ItemsSource="{Binding Items}"
	                    ItemContainerStyle="{DynamicResource SimpleListBoxItem}"
                        ItemTemplateSelector="{StaticResource myselector}"
	                    ScrollViewer.VerticalScrollBarVisibility="Disabled"
                        
	                    >
                <ListBox.Background>
                    <LinearGradientBrush EndPoint="0.5,1" StartPoint="0.5,0">
                        <GradientStop Color="#AA004886" Offset="0" />
                        <GradientStop Color="#AAFFFFFF" Offset="1" />
                    </LinearGradientBrush>
                </ListBox.Background>
                <ListBox.ItemsPanel>
                    <ItemsPanelTemplate>
                        <WrapPanel IsItemsHost="True" 
	                        Orientation="Horizontal"
	                                                Width="{Binding 
	                          Path=ActualWidth,
	                          RelativeSource={RelativeSource 
	                              Mode=FindAncestor, 
	                              AncestorType=
	                                 {x:Type ScrollContentPresenter}}}" />
                    </ItemsPanelTemplate>
                </ListBox.ItemsPanel>
            </ListBox>
        </ScrollViewer>
    </Grid>
</UserControl>

private void UserControl_Loaded(object sender, RoutedEventArgs e)
{
            tables = GlobalVariables.remote.GetTables();
            Tablelist.ItemsSource = tables;
}

<UserControl x:Class="CueSelectorControl.CueControl"
             xmlns="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml/presentation"
             xmlns:x="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml"
             xmlns:mc="http://schemas.openxmlformats.org/markup-compatibility/2006" 
             xmlns:d="http://schemas.microsoft.com/expression/blend/2008">
        <Grid x:Name="LayoutRoot">
        <Border Width="28" Height="86" Background="#FF7F8A93" CornerRadius="5">
            <Grid>
                <Grid.RowDefinitions>
                    <RowDefinition Height="*" />
                    <RowDefinition Height="*" />
                    <RowDefinition Height="*" />
                </Grid.RowDefinitions>

                <Button x:Name="btnUp" Click="btnUp_Click" Grid.Row="0" Content="" Margin="0" Height="26" Style="{DynamicResource ButtonStyleArrowUp}" Width="26"/>
                <Button x:Name="btnDown" Click="btnDown_Click" Grid.Row="2" Content="" Margin="0" Height="26" Style="{DynamicResource ButtonStyleArrowDown}" Width="26"/>
                <TextBlock x:Name="tbCueCount" Grid.Row="1" Text="0" HorizontalAlignment="Center" VerticalAlignment="Center" FontSize="21.333" FontWeight="Bold" Foreground="White" />

            </Grid>
        </Border>
    </Grid>

namespace CueSelectorControl
{
    public partial class CueControl : UserControl
    {
        public static readonly DependencyProperty CurrentCueCountProperty =
            DependencyProperty.Register("CurrentCueCount", typeof(int), typeof(CueControl), new PropertyMetadata(0, OnMyPropertyChanged));

        public  int CurrentCueCount
        {
            get { return (int)GetValue(CurrentCueCountProperty); }
            set 
            {
                SetValue(CurrentCueCountProperty, value);
            }
        }

        private static void OnMyPropertyChanged(DependencyObject d, DependencyPropertyChangedEventArgs e)
        {
            CueControl control = d as CueControl;
            if (control == null)
            {
                return;
            }
    
            control.UpdateLayout();
        }

        public CueControl()
        {
            InitializeComponent();
            CurrentCueCount = 0;
        }

        private void btnUp_Click(object sender, RoutedEventArgs e)
        {
            CurrentCueCount++;
            tbCueCount.Text = CurrentCueCount.ToString();
        }

        private void btnDown_Click(object sender, RoutedEventArgs e)
        {
            if (CurrentCueCount > 0)
            {
                CurrentCueCount--;
                tbCueCount.Text = CurrentCueCount.ToString();
            }
        }
    }
}

public class PlayTable : INotifyPropertyChanged
{
        private int _cueCount;
        public int CueCount
        {
            get { return _cueCount; }
            set 
            {
                _cueCount = value;
                //OnPropertyChanged(new PropertyChangedEventArgs("CueCount"));
                PropertyChanged(this, new PropertyChangedEventArgs("CueCount"));
            }
        }

        public event PropertyChangedEventHandler PropertyChanged = delegate { };
        public void OnPropertyChanged(PropertyChangedEventArgs e)
        {
            if (PropertyChanged != null)
                PropertyChanged(this, e);
        }
}