public   class  AddressBookTableModel  extends  AbstractTableModel  implements  RowSetListener, ListSelectionListener {
   ...
     public   int  getRowCount() {
         try  {
             if  (crowSet.last()) {
                 return  crowSet.getRow();
            }  else  {
                 return   0 ;
            }
        }  catch  (SQLException e) {
             return   0 ;
        }
    }

     public  Object getValueAt( int  rowIndex,  int  columnIndex) {
        Object value =  null ;

         try  {
            crowSet.absolute(rowIndex +  1 );

             if  (visibleColumns !=  null ) {
                columnIndex = findColumnIndex(visibleColumns[columnIndex]);
            }

             if  (columnIndex != - 1 ) {
                value = crowSet.getObject(columnIndex +  1 );
            }
        }  catch  (SQLException sqlex) {
            sqlex.printStackTrace();
        }
         return  value;
    }


     public   void  rowSetChanged(RowSetEvent event) {
        updateRowCount();
        fireTableStructureChanged();
    }

     public   void  rowChanged(RowSetEvent event) {
        updateRowCount();
        fireTableDataChanged();
    }

    ...
}

     public  AddressBookJFrame() {
         try  {
            initComponents();

            rset =  new  MyCachedRowSet();
            tmodel =  new  AddressBookTableModel();

            loadTableData();
            tmodel.setRowSet(rset);

            ...
            jTable1.setModel(tmodel);
            jTable1.setSelectionModel(tmodel.getTableSelection());

            //Инициализация окна редактирования данных текущей строки таблицы
            dialog =  new  AddressBookJDialog(AddressBookJFrame. this , true, tmodel);

        }  catch  (SQLException ex) {
            Logger.getLogger(AddressBookJFrame. class .getName()).log(Level.SEVERE,  null , ex);
        }
    }


     public   void  loadTableData() {
        rset.loadData("ORD");
    }

     public  AddressBookJFrame() {
       ...
       abTME =  new  TableModelEvent(tmodel, TableModelEvent.HEADER_ROW);
    }

     private   void  create_jBActionPerformed(java.awt.event.ActionEvent evt)
    {                                          
        dialog.setPrimaryKeyID( 0 );
        dialog.clearFields();
        showDialog();

        //Вызывается по возвращении из модальной формы редактирования
        tmodel.fireTableChanged(abTME);
    }