<plugin>
    <groupId>org.wildfly.plugins</groupId>
    <artifactId>wildfly-maven-plugin</artifactId>
    <version>1.2.0.Final</version>
    <configuration>
        <skip>true</skip>
        <hostname>${wildfly-hostname}</hostname>
        <port>${wildfly-port}</port>
        <username>${wildfly-username}</username>
        <password>${wildfly-password}</password>
        <jboss-home>${wildfly-home}</jboss-home>
        <java-opts>
            тут много jvm параметров
        </java-opts>
    </configuration>
</plugin>

<plugin>
    <groupId>org.wildfly.plugins</groupId>
    <artifactId>wildfly-maven-plugin</artifactId>
    <version>1.2.0.Final</version>
    <configuration>
        <skip>false</skip>
    </configuration>
</plugin>